What happens when a man wants to marry a woman with more than just sex appeal?
The man, who has not been named, is in his 30s and married.
He said he had never slept with a woman and he was “not a slut”.
“My life has been good so far, but I am a man.
I don’t like to be called a whore,” he said.
“I don’t want to be a man who is in love with a girl.
It’s a big step.”
But he said he would never be happy with a married woman and wanted to “do everything I can to be happy for her”.
The BBC’s Nick Bryant reports from the Netherlands.